What do you do when your lesbian lover of 9 years tells you she loves you but because she has anger issues she is seeing someone else and doesnt want to let the other person go but still want to try?
Answer : A
It would be in your best interest to let her go and both you move on in different directions. She seems to want her "cake and eat it too" by wanting you to be there not committed but is also seeing someone else - wrong. She doesn't want you enough to be with you but she also doesn't want anyone else having you, that is controlling and you should not be putting up with her behaviour or the way she is treating you. You deserve someone that will return your feelings as well as respect them not treat you like a doormat and want you when they want something to do with you - its as though she wants you to wait around in case this other relationship does not work out which makes you second best and her obviously always looking for something "better" in her eyes. Let her go, don't look back and move forward - learn from this relationship - it will reinforce in you what you really want or do not want in a future relationship
It would be in your best interest to let her go and both you move on in different directions. She seems to want her "cake and eat it too" by wanting you to be there not committed but is also seeing someone else - wrong. She doesn't want you enough to be with you but she also doesn't want anyone else having you, that is controlling and you should not be putting up with her behaviour or the way she is treating you. You deserve someone that will return your feelings as well as respect them not treat you like a doormat and want you when they want something to do with you - its as though she wants you to wait around in case this other relationship does not work out which makes you second best and her obviously always looking for something "better" in her eyes. Let her go, don't look back and move forward - learn from this relationship - it will reinforce in you what you really want or do not want in a future relationship
Answer : B
Like any relationship communication skills are more important than sex. It's apparent she has been complaining and you haven't been listening! A couple should make an effort to spend quality time with each other or why bother having a relationship.
Try communicating to her and see if she'll listen. Remember, she has a right to be angry if you haven't been listening or sitting down with her to resolve your problems. Be calm and try to come to some amicable agreement that will both suit you. I agree that this should stay between the two of you because it's private.
Like any relationship communication skills are more important than sex. It's apparent she has been complaining and you haven't been listening! A couple should make an effort to spend quality time with each other or why bother having a relationship.
Try communicating to her and see if she'll listen. Remember, she has a right to be angry if you haven't been listening or sitting down with her to resolve your problems. Be calm and try to come to some amicable agreement that will both suit you. I agree that this should stay between the two of you because it's private.
